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A relationship day counter ticking by the second

This relationship day counter answers "how long have we been together?" live, down to the second, on a private page you make for your partner. It also adds up the sunsets, weekends and full moons you've shared, which says more than a date in your calendar.

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Day Counter

What to put on it

Starting points. Keep what sounds like you, skip the rest.

  • Start the counter from your first date, not the official day
  • A milestone letter for day 100, day 500 or day 1,000
  • Our story running alongside the counter, one moment at a time
  • A countdown to your next trip just below the counter
  • The sky that night for the date your counter starts from

How long have we been together? The counter answers

The live counter starts from a date you choose and shows how long you've been together, ticking by the second while your partner watches. Besides the time itself, it adds up the sunsets you've seen, the weekends you've had and the full moons that have passed since you started. Those little totals tend to get a smile. You pick the start date: the day you met, the first date, the first kiss or the day you made it official. Couples who disagree on the date can finally settle it here.

Milestones worth celebrating: 100 days, 1,000 days

Counting in days opens up anniversaries that calendars ignore. Day 100 comes a little past three months, early enough to feel new. Day 365 is the one everyone notices. Day 1,000 lands around two years and nine months in, and it's a great excuse for a gift because nobody sees it coming. Day 10,000 is a little over 27 years, for the long haul. Work out when your next one falls and plan the page around it. The counter will be sitting on that number when they open it.

What to put around the counter

A counter on its own is a neat trick; with a few sections around it, it becomes a gift. Write a letter about what the number means to you, then add Our story so the time has faces and places: up to 30 moments, like instant photos on a string. The sky that night can show the stars over the place and date your counter starts from. If a milestone is coming, turn on the surprise opening to keep the page sealed until that day. Then let them come back. The number keeps climbing.

The sections we'd start with

Already ticked when you start from this page. Swap any of them: there are 18 to choose from.

  • Live counter

    How long you've been together, ticking by the second.

  • Our story

    The moments that made you, hung on a string like instant photos.

  • Countdown

    A flip clock counting down to your next date or big day.

  • Photo trail

    Your photos along a path, each hiding a surprise to scratch, shake or peel.

Free to make. €4.99 a month to send.

Build the whole page and see it exactly as they will. Pay only when you're ready to send it. Cancel anytime.

While you make it

Free

  • Build the whole page
  • See it exactly as they will
  • Keep your draft as long as you like
  • No account, no card
When you send it

Plus

€4.99/month

  • Your own link: coupleswebsite.com/your-names
  • Up to 20 photos and 30 moments
  • 3 sections of your choice
  • A QR code to print or tuck into a gift
  • No branding on the page
  • Edit it anytime, cancel anytime
Make yours

Extra sections and extras €0.99/month each.

Questions about a page for your day counter

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How do I count how many days we've been together?

Pick your start date and the counter does the rest, live and down to the second. It's worked out fresh every time they open the page, so the number is always current.

Which date should the counter start from?

Whichever one you two treat as the beginning: the day you met, your first date, or the day you became official. If you can't agree, pick one and put the friendly debate in the letter.

When is our 1,000 day anniversary?

About two years and nine months after your start date. Count 1,000 days forward with any date calculator, then plan the page, and maybe the surprise opening, for that morning.

Is the counter private?

The whole page is private: it opens only for people holding the link, and search engines never list it. You can also add a secret PIN, so entry takes a code only you two know.

What does a relationship day counter cost?

Build it free, with a live preview and no account. Plus, at $4.99 a month, takes it live with three sections included, and each one after that is $0.99 a month. Cancel when you want.

Ideas & guides

All ideas
Relationship Milestones: 100 Days to 10,000 Days5 min readLong Distance Relationship Gifts: 25 Ideas That Land6 min read

More ways to use it

Start from the page closest to what you have in mind. Everything changes as you write.

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Ideas to send

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